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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We dealt with something like this recently, except it was the opposite situation: we were scheduled to move for an amazing job opportunity overseas, told everyone & started preparing, and then the job opportunity was canceled about 4 weeks before our scheduled move. It was so demoralizing. At first, we didn’t even really tell anyone except family. And then word started trickling out and then I had to repeat the same story 100x over the next 4 months.

It really sucked, but it actually worked out for the best for our family. Sigh.

Give her space. She’s probably going thru something traumatic. [/quote]

Oh not. Maybe just maybe she just does not consider OP a friend. And is actually a bit weirded out by OP. But OP and people like OP create these crazy scenarios in their head to protect their ego and rationalize the continued prodding of someone who doesn’t want to speak with them. Like a creepy guy who tells himself she’s just playing hard to get as he continues texting and calling over and over.[/quote]

But OP isn’t some dude that she dated a few times and is now stalking her. She is also a woman, and a mom, and they hung out frequently and their kids were friends. It’s not being a stalker to be like “my daughter said you moved! We miss you guys- that seemed sudden!” and SUPER WEIRD of her friend to just respond “lol”. [/quote]

Right. I actually assume this is a troll at this point, because when OP came back and said she also wouldn’t ask mutual friends… Nope, not believable. If this happened in my group of friends, everyone would be initiating the WTF convo simultaneously. On the tiny chance this isn’t a troll, take one step to confirm your friend isn’t dead in a gutter somewhere. This kind of story is on the news all the time and the reaction is always WTF were her friends thinking? Everyone just believed she randomly moved to Wisconsin and responded lol when they asked? Those friends suck. Never ever is someone’s reply: “Oh, it’s totally understandable that everyone assumed she moved to Wisconsin because an elementary school teacher said so and of course no one tried to call or text more than once. Yup, totally normal.” Like which part of this story would be different if OP’s friend’s DH killed her and the kids and fled the state?[/quote]

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