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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it's curious to me that problems that could be solved by childcare, outsourcing, a job change for more $ or fewer hours is being pathologized re: your husband for missing your company since the job change with your younger DC the "identified problem" in the family system. If you had a 40 hour job that paid for childcare and cleaning and you got groceries delivered, how would your family life change? It may be worth some sessions with a family therapist, these dynamics are not healthy esp with regard to youngest DC. Instead of being realistic and problem solving re: what is best for all, you and DH come at it very differently. I'm guessing one or both of you have some dysfunction in your childhoods. Learn to frame problems differently now, it's not fair to either kid or even to DH to not have both of you be more functional and cognizant of the welfare of the family as a whole. [/quote]
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