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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH and I are 40 and have two twin boys who are 2. We have a nanny who is honestly fantastic and quite pretty, she's 28.

One of my friends (DH's best friends wife) came over right as the nanny was leaving and briefly said hello to her. Her and I continued to chat and she made a comment "she's as hot as Chris (fake name for DH) described her."

I looked pretty shocked when she said that. She apologized extensively and mentioned my husband Chris has told her husband that we have a really hot nanny. She continued to assure me nothing fishy was up it was just the guys talking.

I feel really hurt. Obviously it's because I'm insecure because she's clearly attractive and 10 years younger than me. Should I bring it up to him?[/quote]

Your “friend” did that on purpose.  She knew she was throwing a grenade in the window.[/quote]

She’s a good friend. She kindly let OP know that her husband has noticed the nanny. So what? Some women are naive enough to think “oh what would a 21 year old want with a 42 year old anyway” and are sadly mistaken. Tale as old as time.

I’d be on high alert in OP’s shoes but also admit I wouldn’t have hired an attractive nanny on the first place unless my husband traveled extensively and wouldn’t be around her much. [/quote]

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