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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Some men really are not sleeping with their wives. There are truly sexless marriages. People will put up with a lot of suffering for their kids. I know. I have been married a decade. We have had 8 years total of complete sex drought. We are divorcing for other reasons, but the sexlessness did not help. I am a woman. I know of women who punish their husband by withholding sex...they are not sleeping with their wives....[b]if a man is normal, he will cheat or divorce. [/b]Many prefer cheating to divorce due to kids. My situation is that the marriage was always wrong and low T. But do not overlook that some men really do not have sex with their wives. It is rare but if happens. [/quote]

Agree: any normal man in a sexless marriage will definitely cheat or divorce. Consider that 20% of marriages are estimated to be sexless (and, obviously, NOT divorced) and this accounts for lots of cheating husbands. In fact, compare this with the estimates of married men who cheat: also about 20%. Clearly this is THE SAME 20% group of men.  So it’s NOT rare at all for a cheating man to also be in a sexless marriage. Look at the numbers. Very few men who aren’t in sexless marriages are cheaters.[/quote]

Man here, and you just aren't dealing with stats.  First off, there is no way it's only 20% of married men who cheat.  Maybe at any given moment, but its much higher, some stats are as high as 70% but even if its half, then a big chunk of men who are having marital sex are cheating.

So of course a sexless marriage is going to raise the chances of cheating exponentially and a marriage with great sex is going to lower the chances, but surely you know men who are getting it at home and on the road as well.  It's basic temptation for variety as well.[/quote]

Yes, in fact I am dealing with stats. Just google "what percentage of married men cheat" and then google "what percentage of marriages are sexless"  That is my source.

Where do you get YOUR stats: reply with links/citations. Otherwise, YOU are not dealing with stats.[/quote]

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