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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I feel like these posts really peak around the holidays.are people just slippy about their affairs around Christmas? [/quote] 1) Wives are more likely to notice that DHs suddenly have to run an errand or make a business phone call. 2) OW feel lonely or daydream what the holidays could be like. 3) H’s didn’t get what they really wanted for Christmas and want to “treat” themselves. My dad had a secret second family for eight years. My mom actually found out because of a toy purchase receipt. My dad never did the holiday shopping for us and the purchase was a much higher amount than he would have authorized for us. She confronted him. To this day, I think he left it out on purpose so he’d get caught and could spend Christmas with his AP and their child. I know that sibling later wrote about that Christmas as the happiest of his childhood. He was so thrilled to have his dad on Christmas Day and not the following day. Only he learned on subsequent Christmases that Dad was not actually generous, good humored, or patient when he had to keep that up 365 days a year. Anyway, both sets of kids have very complex feelings about the holidays. [/quote]
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