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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't connect with the AP or their spouse-- an affair with a co-worker will have repercussions for everyone that go beyond an affair. Being angry and completely destroying your family and another family, especially if there are children, is revenge.

Also, you don't know whether the other spouse is stable and what it might trigger. When I found out my DH had an affair, it caused me to feel intense anxiety, sadness, insecurity, etc. We had a very young child with special needs, and I felt like it negatively affected my parenting. These feelings lasted for years- both my DS and I suffered the most and we were the innocents in the situation. A long time ago, my roommate at the time had an affair with a married woman, and I was frankly afraid for my safety if her DH found out. [/quote]

Tough sh!t. APs should have thought about all the destructive repercussions for their own family before deciding to have sex with your spouse.[/quote]

Exactly. I would tell the other spouse and let their employer/friends know the kind of person they are. When you help to destroy a family it's most likely going to come right back around.[/quote]

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