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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I hate survivinginfidelity.com.  I liked ChumpLady much better.  [/quote]

Formerly betrayed spouse here, and I agree 100%. Two totally different (and extreme) perspectives. Eventually I stopped identifying so strongly as a betrayed spouse and moved on from it all, but it took over a year. [/quote]

Chumplady 100%

OP, if you want to work on your marriage then go for it...but please please please go see an attorney and get a Post nuptual agreement in place ASAP.  If  your wife is really sorry and really wants to save your marriage she will have no trouble at all signing whatever your attorney gives her because she ended the affair with him and  will never cheat again.  Right?

Take it from someone who tried to save my marriage after I caught my husband having an "emotional affair".  We went to therapy etc etc etc.     8 years later I find out it never stopped, it was physical and it wasn't just her it was a lot of other people too.

How I wish I had read Chumplady and gotten a post nup then...would have saved an obscene amount of money, time and tears.

So....while you are working on saving your marriage, please protect yourself and your children.    [/quote]

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