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[quote=Anonymous]When my brother got married, I was living abroad with my family so I had not met his future wife or her family. One of the first facts I came to know about her was that she and her family were very excited about having the wedding at a plantation. Many of my extended family members met her for the first time at her plantation wedding. The thing is that first impressions go a long way. In our extended family people still remember that she's the girl that had the plantation wedding -- and yes, a fair number of people do find a plantation wedding upsetting. This is an important thing to bear in mind -- for many extended family members, the wedding might be the first time they meet the bride or the groom. Do you want a plantation to be part of that first impression that you are making? IN other words, the only thing they might actually know about you is that there's a possibility that you are racially insensitive or perhaps a racist. [/quote]
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