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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Anyone ever recharge their sex life? Wife complains I do not initiate enough, but every time I do I am shot done. Less than once a month here and[b] never on birthdays and not on our last anniversary[/b]. I plan dates and put the time in, but don't see any movement from her. We have had the sex talk for a number of years, but it is always the same result. She says she is interested and wants more, but we never click anymore. sex was great when dating and died even before we had kids.[/quote] I don't know why but the expectation of sex on birthdays and anniversaries annoys me.[/quote] I don't know why, but a person who is in a sexually exclusive relationship using the derogatory phrase "expectation of sex" annoys me. To the sexless PP: have one final sex talk with her. Find out if she really IS interested in sex enough to schedule this on a reliable (couple times/week) basis. If she declines, I would discourage you from continuing to try having sex with a woman who does not actually want it. That's very unpleasant for both of you! Instead, ask if she prefers to get divorced or give you a permanent hall pass. Best to decisively solve this problem (one way or another) right away. The alternative will be a slow orbit of the marital toilet bowl, replete with disgusting sounds and smells, before the inevitable flush.[/quote]
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