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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My dad molested his sister when they were young adults. He told me when I was about 17 because I saw her be really mean to him one day and he felt like he had to tell me why she was so angry with him. It changed my view of him forever.[/quote]

It is pretty unforgivable.[/quote]

everything is forgivable, especially if it was something that happened when the offender was a child himself.[/quote]

He was 17 and he knew what he was doing.  There are many who were molested as children and they don't become molesters.  Imagine the trauma to his sister.  I wouldn't speak to him either and I would NEVER have allowed him to be around my children.  You are wrong not everything is forgivable.  You don;t have to let it ruin your life but I would never have trusted him again.  You do what you want.  [/quote]

first, why do you assume he was 17?  if that is the case and the sister was much younger, then that is pretty bad.  but what if the dad was 12 or 13 at the time?  if so, he was a child himself.  second, everything is certainly forgivable.[/quote]

My mistake, PP was 17 when she was told of this.  I don't really care how old he ws.  I care about the trauma to his sister.[/quote]

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