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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Let's see here.

Closed adoption.

Birth mother adamant she not be contacted.

I don't see any reason for misunderstanding here.

Your sister needs to leave them all alone.

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Most were closed. Many were at the behest of the mother's family who were embarrassed. Nope, she is entitled to know everything about her birth, who she is related to, and anything pertinent. She is not entitled to a relationship, though. 
Your "misunderstanding" is that she was not a puppy to be sold. She deserves ALL information regardless of archaic laws. You are sorely misunderstood.[/quote]

[b]So get an order for medical information and leave them alone.[/b]

You cannot force someone to share their life story.

I met a woman, an adult adoptee.  She insisted on pushing through, finding birth mom and getting her answers.   Who is bio dad and why adoption?  Who are the rest of my family?  Well, bio dad is the S.O.B who kidnapped and raped bio mom.  Not long after the adoptee got the answers she felt entitled to, bio mom killed herself.  Now the adoptee has no answers.  Her half siblings would have nothing to do with her.  They knew nothing until she showed up.

Leave people alone when they have no interest.  You have no clue what you could be dredging up.[/quote]

This. Sister has no right to anything beyond that, if she even has that. Comparing adopted to kids to puppies, by the way, is disgusting.[/quote]
Sure, it does sound disgusting, doesn't it? And yet, that is how children were processed. You got it.[/quote]

Um, no. That's not what I said. What was the alternative in these situations? Forcing the mother to keep a child she didn't want? Having an abortion? Adopting the baby to a loving family to give him/her a chance at a nice life? That's not processing the child like a puppy, dick.

Let me guess, you're "pro life"?[/quote]

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