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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My brothers girlfriend gave up a child about 15 years ago.  She was 15 at the time.  I wonder what will happen in a few years but my horrible racist mom definitely would not be kind to the child if she was contacted (child was mixed race).  I don’t know if my brother had told his wife but I’d assume so.  I still do not know how accepting they’d be as they are trump supporters.[/quote]

Also what would she want from us?  We don’t have any known medical stuff on our side (except maybe some mental issues bc trumpers).  If we don’t have info nor want a relationship what else is there?  Money?[/quote]

After watching the TV shows, the adoptees want the family stories, compare pictures of themselves, they want to come for Christmas dinners and be included in family events (maybe more like a cousin than a sibling though). They are looking for a second set of parents. I think most kids dream of having these fantastic parents out there who will love them more. All of it seems kind of delusional.

I wonder if egg donors are going to run into the same issues. [/quote]

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