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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've thought about it but never done it.  DH is just much lower drive than I am and it makes me sad.  He's a great guy but it has been the same situation for 15 years now and it never changes, no matter how much I talk to him, try to look nice.  When we were dating, it wasn't as noticeable to me because I was working 70 hours a week or so, but once we got married and I switched jobs, it started bothering me a lot more.  I am 95 percent sure that I will never actually have an affair, because I know it is wrong, but this situation is disheartening and I feel unattractive and undesired.[/quote]

OMG this is me!!!  Its very disheartening![/quote]

I suspect yours is a very rare scenario: both are satisfied with the sex while dating, frequency has not really changed, yet one partner now wants MORE.
Not sure that an affair is justified here, given that you knew what you were marrying into, and the only change was on YOUR side.

Far far far more often we see: both are satisfied with the sex while dating, later on frequency DROPS because one partner wants it LESS.
An affair is justified and expected in this case of bait and switch.
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