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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am confused by this thread and by general conversation in this forum. People talk about sex with spouses as if it is another chore, like taking trash out or taking kids to school. They talk in terms of outcomes. If you give your spouse sex you will keep your marriage. If you don't give your spouse sex you will end up cheated on or divorced.
What about feelings? I mean how can you have satisfying sex without deep intimacy, connectedness, giddy feelings, excitement?
I married later in life to a husband 8 years younger than me. If we don't feel like having sex for a week or two or even a month we are totally ok. We don't obsess over sex. [b]We have sex when we feel deeply connected.[/b] I guess I don't know how else to have sex...
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I'm sorry to be blunt,  but you sound like a woman who has no idea how her husband's anatomy and biological drive work. You project the way [i]you [/i]feel about sex onto your husband.

My husband and I have sex nearly every night and yet nearly every morning he masturbates before work.  Why?  Because sometimes he wants touchy feely romantic sex and sometimes he just wants to cum. I promise you your husband is not only having sex with he feels deeply connected.  That's you.  He may not be having an affair at all, it may just be between him and his hand.

And if you don't know this about him, it's because you don't have the super close intimate relationship you think you have with him. [/quote]

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