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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This post and the responses stuck with me last night. I don’t understand why everyone jumped to camps where either the OP or the twin mom is an awful person. The cynicism and judgement is saddening.

It absolutely is a burden to spend an extra 10 minutes every morning helping out another family for several weeks. Tougher still if the OP doesn’t feel any gratitude or close relationship with the other family.

But I can honestly say that it would be an honor if I were in a position make that small sacrifice to help a neighbor out. Especially if that neighbor is recovering from a c-section or otherwise struggling in the weeks after birth. I’d go to bed sleeping better because I had an easy opportunity to do something nice for someone every day. Every morning already you’ve improved someone’s day - that’s awesome!

As a result of this post and the responses, DH and I talked for while last night about how isolated families are and how hard it is to ask for or receive support. We’re going to look for more ways to proactively volunteer to help our neighbors or the families of our kid’s classmates. We both work full time and struggle with the usual time-money-energy balances, but we have yet to regret any of the small ways we’ve extended ourselves in the past.[/quote]

:roll: barf.

Gold star for you, PP.  except, you know, you haven't done jack sh*t, and no where near what Op has already done for Twin Mom, but you've already claimed credit.  Gag me with a spoon.[/quote]

Wow, you sound like you’re still hung over from the weekend. Or this morning.  [/quote]

No, she's gagging on the saccharine sanctimony of the post she was responding to. [/quote]

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