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[quote=Anonymous]New poster here.

Accepting your husband's behavior (through staying married) is guaranteeing that neither of your kids will ever have functional relationships in the future. You would be normalizing what's actually totally fucked up.

Your kids will figure it all out, with your help or without it. The only question is whether you want them to see you as the reasonable victim who respected them and always tried to do the best for them, or someone who was part of the dysfunction and caused them more pain due to her own selfishness and/or weakness.

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[quote=Anonymous]What's to stop him from doing this again?[/quote]

Nothing, just like any other unfaithful spouse, except the commitment not to, and the fear of losing everything.

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Woah. Your husband is absolutely not "just like any other unfaithful spouse". He didn't get drunk one night and make a bad decision. He deliberately deceived you for years and then dragged your kids into the guts of the deception and dysfunction. He's clearly has no morals whatsoever and has absolutely no regard for you or your kids. Pretending otherwise will only hurt your kids even more.[/quote]

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