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[quote=Anonymous]You say that you don't want your children to think that this is normal, or that this is how men are allowed to behave. However, it's about actions, not words. You would have to show, through your actions, that you don't believe that it's okay for a man -- specifically, your husband -- to behave this way. Staying married implies that you do find these behaviors acceptable. I think that what a lot of people here are saying is that it's just extremely difficult to believe that someone whose betrayal of trust was so great, and in such profound ways, over a period of years, will change overnight. And that, if he continues, and you continue the marriage, that you will effectively be communicating the message that you accept these behaviors. [/quote]
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