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This, plus 1.  Start hitting the gym, hard.  At night, after your kids are put to bed, go hit the gym.  Don't sit around the house moping for your DW's attention - she wants to be left alone at the end of the day.  You will burn off the sexual energy, burn off frustration, get in better shape, become more interesting to your DW, and you will get that desirability feeling from other women.  [/quote]

This sounds like a reasonable suggestion.

Signed by a burned out dh, burned out by his own desires and by dw's frequent refusal, by his responsibility and the desire for freedom.

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Hang in there my man.  I did this and it helped a little.  I think it had something to do with a combination of giving your wife some alone time after the kids are in bed so she can facebook or do whatever she does that you look at with frustration because you could be having sex.  Also, creating a little independence, a little doubt in the security in the relationship can spark some women.  What makes (some) women emotionally secure isn't necessarily what makes them libidinous.

Also, once women start noticing you and flirting with you - you may also get approached by women sexually.  You don't have to have an affair, but knowing you can is liberating.  You stop feeling trapped, you realize you have options and you can make a conscious choice to stay and remain faithful vs. cheating vs. divorcing.  It doesn't help the sexual frustration but it helps the feeling of eternal hopelessness.[/quote]

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