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[quote=Anonymous]I am glad I found this post.  I am too in a very rough spot in my marriage right now, after 10 years.  I just can't do anything right by DH.  I am not supportive enough, I am not caring enough, I dare to criticize him, I bring him down, etc.  I asked him once "is there anything you like about me?" and he was geniunely stunned by this questions.  His response, "well, I married you, didn't I?"  I can't call him a good provider because he has made some bad financial decisions that have nearly cost us our house.  He flirts with other women and gets offended when I call him on it, he says "he'st just being friend and I am a wet blanket."  A few weeks ago I basically threw in a towel and told him to leave. I have a good job, I can provide for our DC.  For the first time, he seemed really scared. He offered to go to therapy and I know he's been going to sessions. I've been going to a shrink for the past 2 years because I seriously thought there was something very wrong with me for my husband to treat me with such disrespect and contempt.  I realize that while I have matured, changed my priorities to support our family and our child, he is still acting like a college student and living in a dream bubble.  He's very smart, very talented, a life of a party, people gravitate to him.  But throughout our marriage he always had issues at every job he had, he has burned bridges, he has broken a lot of good professional contacts.  There are several companies in this town who simply won't hire him despite all his degrees and experience; simply because of his 
I am God" attitude.  I am willing to give one last shot at therapy but in the meantime, I do have a safety cushion just in case I have to throw him out for good. [/quote]

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