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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She told my husband "when a son marries, a mother loses a son, when a daughter marries a mother gains a son". On the way to church on our wedding day.

I hate her guts for doing this.[/quote]

It's usually true though.[/quote]

My MIL said the same on our wedding day. I told her she gained a daughter as my husband is an only child. Unfortunately, she has not been interested in a daughter. Have been married for 13 years now, it has never improved. 
I learned it the hard way. She cuts me out of pictures which hurt after giving birth. She only wanted to see the baby. 
I have never done anything bad to her other than marrying her son.

When we were dating suggested to my DH I only want a Greencard (I come from Europe).
I am resentful at times as my husband and FIL allow her to behave like this. 
I know it is not healthy for me. 
Never really learned how to step up other  than leaving.

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I am the PP you're quoting.  The kicker is that DH has been on his own living in another country since 17 and he is the only one of 4 siblings who supports his mother financially (did that before we married and still does it). Apparently it's ok that he lived far away from the mommy half of his life, but God forbid he found someone who loves him and cares for him. Now she lost him, woe is her. Luckily DH knows she is a passive agressive nut case.[/quote]

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