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[quote=Anonymous]Since everyone is dispensing this great advice about keeping the ex out, let's take it to the next step. How would you advise OP deal with the aftermath in the worst case? Suppose the 18YO says "I do not appreciate my mother being treated like this - I want to stay over there from now on!" Suppose the kids defy you and say "you are not even here when she comes. You said this is our home too and we are going to let her in if you are not here!" Suppose the situation really goes left and her DH says "I knew this was a bad idea - shoulda never let you talk me into it. Now my kids don't want to stay here." See...we have 50 people telling her to limit or deny acces to the ex. That's the easy advice. What I do not see is anyone advising her how to handle any potential fallout. Before I took the step that many of you are advising, I would want imout on how to deal with what may come next. That will be the most challenging part of this. [/quote]
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