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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Sabrina55][quote=Anonymous]and, for some perspective: I have a stepchild.  I mix my money with my spouse's income, and it all goes to our [b]family [/b]expenses; housing, food, activities, camp, clothes, etc. Supporting my stepchild--financially and emotionally--was part of the deal when I married my spouse. It's a package deal. I do not 'subtract' expenses for stepchild because I am not biologically related.  While I understand why a PP felt that your fiance did not have an "obligation" to support your kids (but did have an obligation to share expenses) I would seriously question why you would want to marry someone who did not view you or your children as family. [/quote]

[b]You can't help who you love and it really hurts to feel that he can just walk away and move on like nothing happened and not even care, while I am hurt, crushed and questioning myself and for him to doubt that I did love him[/b].[/quote]

I've read most of the thread, but I wanted to speak to the bold. This man does not deserve you, he used you and mentally abused you for being a good person.  For him to walk away like nothing between the two of you after FOUR years is disgusting and speaks volumes of his character. I too have been left by a man I loved; he too walked away like nothing ever existed between us, we were married for 7 years.  I can understand how heartbreaking and sad you feel.  Although it may not be easy pick yourself up; both for you and your kids and move on with your life.  It seems like you have loving children who appreciate you for who you are and what you mean to them.  Embrace them and forget about the asshole who ripped your heart apart!  Good luck. [/quote]

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