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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I posted earlier asking about how your kids felt.  Thank you for providing their ages, and yes, you did mention the scholarship -- good to hear they're doing well despite this manipulative man in their lives.

[b]Why are you continuing to ask about the financial split?  Didn't you already hear from everyone on this board that this guy is BAD for you?  I want to support you, but I don't hear resolve to change this situation in your posts. [/b] I hear that you want to make it work somehow, and I think the vast majority of advice is that this is not the right man for you.

And I agree with a PP who said not every relationship discussion need to discuss the kids -- but this one sure does!!!!  Last time I checked, this was a parent forum.  If there was ever a situation where the OP needs to consider the impact on her children, it is this one.  I'm sure there are plenty of posters here who saw his or her parent going through something similar and wouldn't wish it upon their own kids. Sheesh![/quote]

I think she IS done with the relationship.  She isn't asking about the financial split anymore.  He left and like a normal human being, she is hurting, questioning herself, their love, all of that in the immediate aftermath of their split.  It's normal behavior.  We are all concerned for her because she is having these doubts (like a normal person) and he emailed her and she responded.  We just want to make sure she stays strong.[/quote]

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