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[quote=Anonymous][quote]You can't help who you love and it really hurts to feel that he can just walk away and move on like nothing happened and not even care, while I am hurt, crushed and questioning myself [b]and for him to doubt that I did love him[/b][/quote]

this is classic manipulative technique. Of course you loved him, no one else would have put up with that level of crap. You need to turn it around: you need to doubt that he loved you. Because if he did, he would be doing whatever in his power to make it up to you, not trying to manipulate and guilt you.  And if he truly is moving on without a care, then he is the one who lacks love, not you.

and yes, actually, you can help who you love---you can make a conscious decision to let yourself fall in love with good guys and not fall for the BS that you did. I did it, after years of failed relationships with not so good guys. My husband is not perfect by any means, but he's a good guy.

I strongly recommend that you explore why you allowed yourself to accept so little and why you let someone else define you in this way. [/quote]

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