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[quote=Anonymous]Sabrina - Please share his email and your response.  You are getting great support here and in reading this whole thread, that guy is a very good manipulator - pulling at whatever strings he can to get you to pay his way (mostly pay his way).  After you showed him this thread and asserted yourself, he stormed off and probably said something like, "see, you were after my money."  But that means his gravy train is over.  he had it GOOD!!! A man in his 40s doesn't want to live with his parents and he knows it even though he tells you he could just as easy go back there.  He knows on some level that he was being supported by you and he was taking from you and now it stopped.

I am guessing he's going to try and get you back - by guilt, certainly not by kindness.  But he'll also try and manipulate you into asking him back (rather than he asking you if he could come back.)  Keep in mind that he is doing that so that the next time you argue about money, he can say.  You asked me back!  I could have stayed at my parents' house but you asked me back.

So, please share his email and your response so we can help you stay strong.  You are doing great and you are showing your kids how strong you are. [/quote]

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