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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Give that man a break. 
He fell in love with a colleague. He doesn’t love his wife anymore. 
You don’t control who you fall in love with. What should he do? Ignore his feelings and live a miserable life with someone he no longer loves? 
He made the right decision for both of them. I bet that she doesn’t love him either. [/quote]
He made the right decision for himself.[/quote]
No, it's the right decision for her as well. Do you want her to stay with a man who doesn't love her anymore? [/quote]

If kids are under age 20 and in the picture, yes.

DP[/quote]
This is nonsense. It’s 2026 and women don’t have to suffer in silence anymore.[/quote]

But children do, right?[/quote]

Living with parents who have a loveless (or disdainful) marriage is very damaging.

They do not learn wfat to look for in their own future partner.

It is much better for them to see a happy role model, who has self esteem and knows how to set boundaries. [/quote]

I have a couple of friends (both male and female) whose parents had theatrical splits when kids were in their teens. Decades later not a single one of them says their parents either with each other or with a rotating cast of future partners, offered them good role models, or had boundaries. Actually a couple had future spouses who were so boundary free they took the past wife's kids with them to the nudist beach.

So, unhealthy, traumatic, and costly. On the positive side, most of the kids in a reaction to dad's midlife crisis never took up with nudist squash players.[/quote]

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