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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I couldn’t be married to someone who gets off on choking women. [/quote]

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This is sexual violence.  He could be a predator to other people and you would not even know (or maybe this shows that you know).  This is deeply disturbing behavior and it is not normal.  This is akin to rape.  You are being raped in your marriage.  I am so sorry for you and your children.

If your DH is role-playing and misguided - he needs to go for intense therapy.  Man, this is so messed up!![/quote]

Obviously non consensual choking is wrong and any choking shouldn’t be happening because of the chances of brain injury and death, even if consensual.

That said, biting, scratching, spanking are all “sexual violence” too.  And then there’s the whole bdsm segment.  If there’s consent (and safe), it’s fine.[/quote]
If someone said “stop spanking me” and you continue to hit them, that’s NOT fine. If someone said “stop biting me” and you continue chomping down, that’s NOT fine. You are so f***ed if you think this is nbd. [/quote]

"Stop" should be avoided as a safeword. The "Yellow/"Red" system is generally best. But do what works for you. [/quote]

DP, sorry, but your way of thinking is very warped. OP flat out told her husband NO. He didn’t misunderstand her, he says he didn’t hear her. He was too focused on his own pleasure and kink to think about his partner and put her in a seemingly dangerous situation.  [/quote]

I’m a bit wrapped up in how does someone say “no” when being choked.  Makes me think this whole post is a tall tale.[/quote]

A good man gets off by pleasing a woman, whatever her thing is. It makes him feel like a manly man. In this situation, OP had already expressed she doesn't like being choked. Her husband does it anyway. And then went too far. He knew exactly what he was doing.

This is a terrible relationship. I don't think this is a sustainable marriage. [/quote]

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