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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Would you be thinking about marrying and having kids with him if you were 6-10 years younger?

It’s okay if the answer is no and you do it anyway.  But be honest with yourself about it, because he isn’t going to change. [/quote]

OP here. This is a good question. I think I’d still consider it. [b]We have a strong emotional connection and I find that hard to come by.[/b]

To add more info. He’s a great cook, frugal shopper, and does take out the trash (he takes out my trash without me asking and we don’t live together). I think he can be depended upon to shuttle kids around and get them to their appointments.

When I say he’s not ambitious I mean in his career. He has no plan for achieving career goals, and doesn’t seem to be passionate about his career.

I wouldn’t want him to be a SAHD. I’m envisioning him continuing to work but picking the slack up with kids, because I will have to be in overdrive to earn more.[/quote]

Strong emotional connection includes good sex? If yes, keep him, marry him.

Many women on this board are complaining about sexless marriages. Men who can satisfy women in the bedroom are hard to find. You have one, keep him.[/quote]

Seriously. All I need is [b]a f*ckable man who can stay in his lane and let me live the life I want[/b]. [/quote]

We have these? Like out there? Walking around in the world?[/quote]

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