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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - I slept with your husband bc DH and I have an open marriage.  Feel free to tell him. I honored the commitments I made to my DH, I'm sorry your spouse didn't do the same for you.  Last I check - I was not part of your wedding vows and made no commitments to you about who I would or wouldn't sleep with [/quote]

Good luck with your new job hunting![/quote]

Its fascinating you think people get fired over this.  Unless there is a boss / subordinate dynamic....they're not.  Workplaces don't get involved with whether someone should be morally sleeping with someone else - if dating is allowed (as it is almost everywhere now except where there are power differentials) then affairs are also allowed.[/quote]

You missed where OP said, earlier in the thread, that her DH and the AP are both "key" players in a small firm with a small staff. Sounds like some entrepreneurial thing. If that's the case, well, two leaders out of a small staff, both with total s**tstorms breaking at home--that's going to play havoc with the whole business, possibly. It's funny to me how some here are so very insistent that an affair could never, ever tank a career or business unless it was a boss-subordinate relationship. [/quote]

DP - I saw that part and that it made it less likely that there would be career fallout honestly. No one is getting rid of 2 key players in a small enterprise. [/quote]
OP’s first thread should be recommended reading for y’all.[/quote]

They are partners are talk hours per day?[/quote]
Yup. I’m waiting for the third installment of this story, perhaps when OP hooks up with AP’s husband. [/quote]

Oh I’m definitely waiting for that too![/quote]

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