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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP - I slept with your husband bc DH and I have an open marriage.  Feel free to tell him. I honored the commitments I made to my DH, I'm sorry your spouse didn't do the same for you.  Last I check - I was not part of your wedding vows and made no commitments to you about who I would or wouldn't sleep with [/quote]

Good luck with your new job hunting![/quote]

Its fascinating you think people get fired over this.  Unless there is a boss / subordinate dynamic....they're not.  Workplaces don't get involved with whether someone should be morally sleeping with someone else - if dating is allowed (as it is almost everywhere now except where there are power differentials) then affairs are also allowed.[/quote]

You missed where OP said, earlier in the thread, that her DH and the AP are both "key" players in a small firm with a small staff. Sounds like some entrepreneurial thing. If that's the case, well, two leaders out of a small staff, both with total s**tstorms breaking at home--that's going to play havoc with the whole business, possibly. It's funny to me how some here are so very insistent that an affair could never, ever tank a career or business unless it was a boss-subordinate relationship. [/quote]

DP - I saw that part and that it made it less likely that there would be career fallout honestly. No one is getting rid of 2 key players in a small enterprise. [/quote]

I suspect that maybe some of the few employees might see themselves out the door once it's known that these two were screwing.  Saw it happen in a small business in a similar situation. Couple of important employees departed as soon as they could manage it, because they were disgusted with the two principals who were having an affair. Well, we'll see, if OP comes back to tell us, after all the s**t hits the fan. [/quote]

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