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[quote=Anonymous][quote] Wrong. And btw you may try giving someone a genuine compliment on their new appearance - hair cut, outfit, happy face, weight loss, general health and wellness — and most likely you will brighten someone’s day. [/quote] God so many of you are so incapable of seeing the point. We know saying someone looks great is meant as a compliment, as a social nicety. The point is that it shouldn't be. Are we not ever going to evolve to the point where a woman's physical appearance is not considered an accomplishment? As a woman, I'm sick of the state of my body being under constant judgement. If you are making what you consider to be benign comments on women's bodies my problem with it is not that the comment is rude or mean, it's that it's unnecessary. Please stop telling me that that first thing that happens when you see me is that you scrutinize my body. If you really can't help yourself, say something like, "your dress is such a pretty color!" [/quote]
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