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Reply to "We keep arguing about work and home responsibilities because we're both overwhelmed."
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[quote=Anonymous]I am with the PP who asked HOW we are supposed to get our husbands to do more. The reality is that lots of men are selfish and our society is set up in a way that enables them. Threatening divorce if you don’t mean it is manipulative and ineffective. Divorcing your DH over division of labor issues doesn’t actually solve the issue. If the DH is useless now, he will be useless after the divorce. You can’t force someone to step up and participate in 50/50 custody. The truth is that if a man doesn’t want to contribute and deep down, doesn’t believe he should actually have to be an equal partner in raising kids, then there is nothing anyone can do to force him. [/quote]
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