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[quote=Anonymous]OP I also have a child with very limited food in take who has been under the care of professionals since they were 2. We’ve had periods of significant insufficiencies and it’s just been hard. I don’t think you are in the exact situation but it’s been so hard on my marriage.

When one parent doesn’t follow the rules set by the doctors it makes those rules appear optional. It’s not just oh they had cereal for one meal. I would not let this go. It’s not practical to assume you can be there for every bite of food so there has to be one “way” food is handled at home. You have to sit down with him and ask him straight up if this is not important to him. And if he’s not, I think you can really explain the issues. I used to get so frustrated with my husband who would sabotage the progress unintentionally but then complain constantly about our child’s limited diet.

I have let everything else go until we got on the same page about feeding our kids. I would pick your priority and then if you can let the other stuff go maybe put him in charge of other tasks he “can” do [/quote]

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