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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you have a lot of anger at the situation and also jealousy. All of it is very understandable, but this person was not trying to hurt you and could not have known what was going on. I’m sorry for your loss.[/quote]

I was DEVESTATED, my husband, a military officer was crying. We lost our baby. It was dead in my body. [/quote]

OMG would you please stop saying "dead baby" and "dead in my body"? You are incredibly self involved and literally using a dead child to get sympathy on the internet.

Clearly it wouldn't even occur to you that your language and posts could be triggering for others even as you are going on and on about how awful it was for you to get triggered. You need to go get some sympathy from an appropriate place, not here. [/quote]

DP: Stop scolding this poor women for expressing her grief in a perfectly natural way. No one need participate in a thread and you already know what this one is about.

OP I have no idea why people are being so hard on you today. Usually this is a more supportive area. [/quote]

+1.  It’s appropriate to say “dead baby” and “dead in my body” because it’s the truth.  No need to sugarcoat it.[/quote]

+1 "Dead baby" and "dead in my body" are accurate and therefore normal to write.

To some people, the term "passed away" is far more offensive than "dead." [/quote]

Fetus, not baby.
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STFU. It is and was OP’s baby. I’m angry for OP now because of how she is being treated. F off.[/quote]

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