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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The DWs on here plotting to harm the OW sound just as crazy as the OW.  I actually feel bad for the cheating spouse.  All the DH probably wants is some NSA sex with someone who isn’t crazy and hysterical.  Instead he gets sex from a crazy and then another crazy plotting to blow up someone’s life.  [/quote]

Are you serious?

What kind of mental gymnastics do you need to do to come up with this twisted interpretation. [/quote]

When you’re an outsider it’s a lot easier to look at a situation and see how everyone involved is at fault and acting crazy.  Emotions are high and anytime you’re trying to purposely harm someone else you aren’t in a good place.  I don’t care what someone did to you - any women trying to notify someone else for the sole purpose of hurting them is unwell. [/quote]

Unwell, really?

Again, it's that internalized misogyny. Let's say your friend's kid bullied your kid. Do you have to go to therapy and make sure you don't have any anger about it before you tell your friend? Or do you just tell them because they have a right to know, and your (understandable) feelings about it are irrelevant? Making the betrayed woman pass some kind of intention purity test before she can act is really offensive. You don't get to judge her emotional reactions which are basically programmed into her by biology anyway. [/quote]

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