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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am sitting back and waiting for the right time to drop the bomb on my husband's AP by telling her husband.  I couldn't give a sh*t what happens to her, her husband or kids, because she didn't give a sh*t what she did to mine.  In addition to the affair, she went on a campaign to destroy my husband when he ended it.  She is a complete bi-polar psycho who tried to get my husband fired by spreading lies about him (unrelated to their relationship).  My family was nearly destroyed because of this woman.   She brought this on herself.  Her kids and husband should hate her, and I hope someday they do.  And I'll be glad to have a part in it.  My husband sucks too, but he's already paying for his part in all of this. [/quote]
You realize you’re just as psycho, right? Not saying I wouldn’t feel the same way, but it truly sounds like you’ve gone off the rails and need to talk to a professional now. [/quote]

I have a friend whose husband's OW really was psycho. I'm going to guess that since being a single OW is a risky and potentially self-destructive proposition, there may be more mental illness among the people who go down that road. So let's assume that the PP is telling the truth about the OW's actions after the affair ended (hell hath no fury etc.). The majority of responses here fall toward telling the OBS anyway. So is feeling schadenfreude about the thought of OW's life being blown up just like she tried to blow up the exMM's life really "psycho"? I wouldn't even call the PP petty. I'd just say that she *could* choose to be the bigger person, and I'd like to think that I would, but I don't think there's anything shameful about her feelings and choices here. She's just supposed to be a dainty woman and claim that she wouldn't get any pleasure out of blowing up the OW's life I guess, and instead she's just being honest.[/quote]

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