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[quote=Anonymous][quote]The judgement comes from those that decided NOT to terminate. You are the ones stating that women just do away with no so perfect children and how dare they, not taking into consideration what each and every family deals with when making such a decision. The posters on here are the martyrs who state, I have a SN child and I do it every day so every body else should too. The point is, everyone's situation and circumstances are different so don't sit there and tell others what they should do and they are wrong for terminating. Then you want to throw in the, "there are resources and plenty of help" bullshit, which is not necessarily the whole truth and it's not that simple. Just read some of the posts from parents with SN kids who require so much.[/quote] Really, I don't see any judgment coming from posts of women who have self-identified as making the alternative choice of carrying the pregnancy. I see a lot of judgement coming from those who have likely never walked this road at all. That's where a I see the judgment from both sides, NOT from people who have actually experienced this type of traumatic event in their lives. [/quote]
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