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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am a guy who never thought he would be tempted to cheat. I had a passionate relationship with my wife. Yet 15 years later, here I am with great kids and and a dead bedroom. I am very tempted and it does not help that options seem to be all around me. I have not broken yet, but gosh it is harder than I imagined.[/quote]

Same situation but I got you beat by a year.

I cheated at year 4 of a sexless marriage and about year 8 of my wife basically rejecting most advantages.

It was honestly.....incredible. The experience was blur of passion and physical pleasure I forgot existed. So much so I almost feel bad for my wife who seemingly prefers a sexless relationship.

I really don't understand why some people, usually but not always women, don't like sex. It's free and amazing![/quote]

Some women never liked sex and there can be any number of reasons for this including that they might have unresolved trauma from sexual abuse or sexual assault in their past.

But in my decades of observation and personal experience, most women like sex just fine and are very enthusiastic about having it early in a relationship. Years later when their sexual partner and life partner has been behaving like an overgrown teenager who doesn’t pull equal weight in the logistics and mundane work of running a family/home/marriage and instead selfishly indulges his own needs while seemingly never thinking about hers, the attraction just dies. It’s hard to get excited about having sex with a man you have to clean up after just like one of your actual kids. [/quote]

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