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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think the OW is married. She’s scorned and told OP to hurt her husband. I just don’t believe a married woman with children would risk hurting them. If she is married, don’t tell her husband. It’s not OPs responsibility. If OW has kids, you’d be a truly crappy person to willfully change the trajectory of innocent kid’s lives. Pay attention to our country right now. OWs husband could seek his own revenge on OPs husband. Deal with your issues without dragging the innocent into it. [/quote]

My DH had an affair with a married woman.  When he broke it off she went nuts and did a few disturbing things that made us realize she was capable of doing a lot more damage.  I was sooo tempted to call her DH.  I don’t know if he knows, but I really don’t want to find out what this psycho woman is capable of if I tell him.  She’s married with two young kids!  I guess she thought my DH was her ticket out of that marriage. In any case, she deserves to be exposed and I hope the rest of her life is as miserable possible.  I’m going to trust karma to take care of that and protect myself and kids from any more of her insanity.  [/quote]

I’m sorry you were in this situation. You seem remarkably on the same page as your husband though- like his AP harmed both of you and none of the blame lies with your DH, and you’re thankful he stayed with you instead of leaving? I hope that attitude isn’t the case and he actually earned whatever forgiveness you’ve shown him.[/quote]

PP here.  My husband took plenty of the blame.  It has fundamentally changed his life and our relationship.  He will live with that forever.  It is a long road to forgiveness that we are still navigating.  But the separate issue is that the AP is going out of her way after the fact to inflict as much damage as she can.  That is completely on her.[/quote]

And what you don't seem to get is your husband opened that door. Stop acting like you both are victims of this woman. Crazy how you want complete misery for this woman when your husband was just as wrong. He opened that can of worms, he just couldn't control them once they were out. Who's fault is that? [/quote]

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