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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, I think there are a lot of instances where it is justified.[/quote]

Disagree.  Leaving the marriage or working on it with specialists can be justified, not cheating.  [/quote]

It really depends. There are some life circumstances in which divorce won't work. Marriage is not all about sex. [/quote]

The fact you’re cheating means it’’s not something your spouse would agree to.  In this case, the spouse has a right to determine whether it’s better to stay in the marriage or not if you’ve gone outside your marriage.  If marriage isn’t all about sex, it’s definitely about trust.  So no, cheating is never justified.[/quote]

Marriage is also not always about trust. You must think everyone's marriage is a storybook marriage built and love and trust. Not. [/quote]

What do you mean, like it’s also about financial security?[/quote]

If you can't trust someone and they are seeing someone behind your back, do you really think you have financial security??  They could 'fall in love' and decide to leave and start a new family or start giving the bimbo your joint earned $.  She could get knocked up and demand paternity/child support the next 20-some years.

Unless you have an iron-clad pre-nup (very, very few people do), I would NOT trust a cheater with my financial security.  They have proved the are disloyal liars.  And, chemicals and oxytocin often make people do things they normally never would.[/quote]

I am divorced. I worked in my marriage. Your comments are irrelevant. It is not about trust. No matter who someone is married to--cheating or not--your finances are entangled. [/quote]

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