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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]And what is she buying him) [/quote] There is not tradition in our culture of buying men engagement rings. This is not a business negotiation. [b]Your transactional approach to how you express your eternal love to someone[/b] is pretty scarey. [/quote] NP. Women demanding a ring to barter her fertility and youth in marriage (quoting OP here) is traditional and sentimental but men getting a gift from a woman upon engagement is transactional? Make it make sense.[/quote] The bean counting of “she gets a ring, what do I get??” will doom a marriage. You can’t go into it with that attitude. That’s what leads to chore charts and sexlessness and resentment. And FWIW, I know many women who got their H’s engagement gifts, myself included. It may not be as expensive or flashy as a ring, but it was something with sentimental value that they treasured. [/quote]
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