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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Their ex'es make it impossible for them and turn their children tagaint
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Man up.  I thought men were supposed to be tougher than women.  Aren't your kids worth fighting for? Or are these  men such wusses that they allow their exwives to dictate the relationship with their kids.[/quote]

If the courts will not impose consequences, what is a Dad supposed to do?  Police will not often enforce custody/visitaiton orders so if mom refuses, its allowed.  If you take it to court, judge tells mom to allow dad to see the kids.  Mom agrees.  Mom refuses Dad, rinse and repeat.  They have clear consequences for not paying child support.  They have a free way to file for child support.   But, they don't have any consequences for visitation/custody refusal except a rare judge AND they don't have a free way so you can spend a fortune and still not be allowed to see your kids.  [/quote]
I don't know.. I think I would fight till my last breath for my kids, especially if my ex was a complete ahole.[/quote]

How?   You can keep going to court but judges generally just tell mom to let dad see the kids, they don’t, back to court, repeat repeat repeat.  Most dads only have so much money with child support, alimony, other expenses and their own needs.  [/quote]

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