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Anonymous wrote:Because the Mom makes it so difficult on him and causes so much drama. She engages in parental alienation to turn the kid against him anyway and he’s just fighting a losing battle until he finally gives up.

Yep.

There is literally nothing that would stop me from trying to get to my kids. I would never, ever give up. And I think most women are the same. Why do men just give up?

Because offspring requires less commitment for males. A man could sire a baby every day all year long if he had access to enough fertile females. It’s a few minutes “work” for him. A woman makes a 10 month investment.

Most men marry for the sex, not the kids. If they let the kids go their behavior says it all. The courts will enforcement child support and whatever custody is on the divorce decree.
If the guy is a crappy dad then yes the woman can easily move on, and find a real father for the kids. I've seen that quite often. Or the man that sires other kids is often broke paying various women, not to mention low class and tacky. They are out there..

wow, just wow.

Not nice, but a harsh reality for many.

No its not. Most men aren't encouraged to be Dad's between the local and federal laws and women can easily push them out of their kids lives with no consequences. That is the harsh reality. Until we place an equal importance on Dad's in kids lives, nothing will change. If you read this post and others, this is why men give up and check out. Women place no value on kids having a Dad except money and once he women alienate the kids, there isn't much that they can do.

You are part of the problem. Don't complain when men check out given your attitude.

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Anonymous wrote:Perfect example of an ahole absent dad:

https://www.q13fox.com/news/man-dumps-80k-pennies-of-child-support-in-yard-daughter-donates-to-charity

Kid is a brat who has refused to see her dad or years all Shea about was the money and attention.

They donated the money to a domestic abuse shelter... That may be a bit telling as to dynamics of the kids and her Dad's lack of relationship.

No, she did it for her five minutes of media fame. And, if they didn't need the money and mom/kids refused a relationship they should have stoped taking the money long ago. She was angry Dad was angry at her behavior and made a statement that he is only good for money, which was very much the case.

Mom poisoned this kid who was allowed or encouraged to refuse a relationship with Dad to make Mom happy. Mom probably had an affair/remarried quickly, replaced Dad and wanted to pretend she had a perfect family with her new husband as Dad. Dads are disposable in our culture.

Anonymous wrote:Perfect example of an ahole absent dad:

https://www.q13fox.com/news/man-dumps-80k-pennies-of-child-support-in-yard-daughter-donates-to-charity

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Anonymous wrote:Because the Mom makes it so difficult on him and causes so much drama. She engages in parental alienation to turn the kid against him anyway and he’s just fighting a losing battle until he finally gives up.

Yep.

There is literally nothing that would stop me from trying to get to my kids. I would never, ever give up. And I think most women are the same. Why do men just give up?

Because offspring requires less commitment for males. A man could sire a baby every day all year long if he had access to enough fertile females. It’s a few minutes “work” for him. A woman makes a 10 month investment.

Most men marry for the sex, not the kids. If they let the kids go their behavior says it all. The courts will enforcement child support and whatever custody is on the divorce decree.
If the guy is a crappy dad then yes the woman can easily move on, and find a real father for the kids. I've seen that quite often. Or the man that sires other kids is often broke paying various women, not to mention low class and tacky. They are out there..

wow, just wow.

Not nice, but a harsh reality for many.

No its not. Most men aren't encouraged to be Dad's between the local and federal laws and women can easily push them out of their kids lives with no consequences. That is the harsh reality. Until we place an equal importance on Dad's in kids lives, nothing will change. If you read this post and others, this is why men give up and check out. Women place no value on kids having a Dad except money and once he women alienate the kids, there isn't much that they can do.

You are part of the problem. Don't complain when men check out given your attitude.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Perfect example of an ahole absent dad:

https://www.q13fox.com/news/man-dumps-80k-pennies-of-child-support-in-yard-daughter-donates-to-charity

Kid is a brat who has refused to see her dad or years all Shea about was the money and attention.

They donated the money to a domestic abuse shelter... That may be a bit telling as to dynamics of the kids and her Dad's lack of relationship.

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Anonymous wrote:Because the Mom makes it so difficult on him and causes so much drama. She engages in parental alienation to turn the kid against him anyway and he’s just fighting a losing battle until he finally gives up.

Yep.

There is literally nothing that would stop me from trying to get to my kids. I would never, ever give up. And I think most women are the same. Why do men just give up?

Because offspring requires less commitment for males. A man could sire a baby every day all year long if he had access to enough fertile females. It’s a few minutes “work” for him. A woman makes a 10 month investment.

Most men marry for the sex, not the kids. If they let the kids go their behavior says it all. The courts will enforcement child support and whatever custody is on the divorce decree.
If the guy is a crappy dad then yes the woman can easily move on, and find a real father for the kids. I've seen that quite often. Or the man that sires other kids is often broke paying various women, not to mention low class and tacky. They are out there..

wow, just wow.

Not nice, but a harsh reality for many.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Because the Mom makes it so difficult on him and causes so much drama. She engages in parental alienation to turn the kid against him anyway and he’s just fighting a losing battle until he finally gives up.

Yep.

There is literally nothing that would stop me from trying to get to my kids. I would never, ever give up. And I think most women are the same. Why do men just give up?

Because offspring requires less commitment for males. A man could sire a baby every day all year long if he had access to enough fertile females. It’s a few minutes “work” for him. A woman makes a 10 month investment.

Most men marry for the sex, not the kids. If they let the kids go their behavior says it all. The courts will enforcement child support and whatever custody is on the divorce decree.
If the guy is a crappy dad then yes the woman can easily move on, and find a real father for the kids. I've seen that quite often. Or the man that sires other kids is often broke paying various women, not to mention low class and tacky. They are out there..

wow, just wow.

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Anonymous wrote:Perfect example of an ahole absent dad:

https://www.q13fox.com/news/man-dumps-80k-pennies-of-child-support-in-yard-daughter-donates-to-charity

Kid is a brat who has refused to see her dad or years all Shea about was the money and attention.

Anonymous wrote:Perfect example of an ahole absent dad:

https://www.q13fox.com/news/man-dumps-80k-pennies-of-child-support-in-yard-daughter-donates-to-charity

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Anonymous wrote:Their ex'es make it impossible for them and turn their children tagaint
them

Man up. I thought men were supposed to be tougher than women. Aren't your kids worth fighting for? Or are these men such wusses that they allow their exwives to dictate the relationship with their kids.

If the courts will not impose consequences, what is a Dad supposed to do? Police will not often enforce custody/visitaiton orders so if mom refuses, its allowed. If you take it to court, judge tells mom to allow dad to see the kids. Mom agrees. Mom refuses Dad, rinse and repeat. They have clear consequences for not paying child support. They have a free way to file for child support. But, they don't have any consequences for visitation/custody refusal except a rare judge AND they don't have a free way so you can spend a fortune and still not be allowed to see your kids.

I don't know.. I think I would fight till my last breath for my kids, especially if my ex was a complete ahole.

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Anonymous wrote:Because the Mom makes it so difficult on him and causes so much drama. She engages in parental alienation to turn the kid against him anyway and he’s just fighting a losing battle until he finally gives up.

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I guess your kids aren't worth the fight. Sad for your kids.

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Anonymous wrote:Their ex'es make it impossible for them and turn their children tagaint
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Man up. I thought men were supposed to be tougher than women. Aren't your kids worth fighting for? Or are these men such wusses that they allow their exwives to dictate the relationship with their kids.

If the courts will not impose consequences, what is a Dad supposed to do? Police will not often enforce custody/visitaiton orders so if mom refuses, its allowed. If you take it to court, judge tells mom to allow dad to see the kids. Mom agrees. Mom refuses Dad, rinse and repeat. They have clear consequences for not paying child support. They have a free way to file for child support. But, they don't have any consequences for visitation/custody refusal except a rare judge AND they don't have a free way so you can spend a fortune and still not be allowed to see your kids.

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Anonymous wrote:Their ex'es make it impossible for them and turn their children tagaint
them

Man up. I thought men were supposed to be tougher than women. Aren't your kids worth fighting for? Or are these men such wusses that they allow their exwives to dictate the relationship with their kids.

You are such an idiot.

Do you know how manipulative some women can be?

At some point, there is no amount of "manning up" that will offset the toxic ways of a toxic woman - and the solution is NOT for the man to just cave to "her way of doing things" just to "keep the peace". That latter is total, total BS

These woman take it out on their ex by USING their kids. They are sick humans, not the other way around. I've witnessed it first hand and it's rather appalling.

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Anonymous wrote:Because the Mom makes it so difficult on him and causes so much drama. She engages in parental alienation to turn the kid against him anyway and he’s just fighting a losing battle until he finally gives up.

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