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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When women wonder why they face discrimination, I point to this. It's women doing it to each other. You want to fire a woman just because she is more attractive than you. Cray cray.

Who needs the patriarchy[/quote]

Patriarchy has always required the support and assistance of women to succeed. We have people blaming the wife, the friend, the nanny,  too many are reluctant to hold the husband accountable. We've got people bragging about how the fire or don't hire attractive women at their jobs. The real kicker is I bet most of these posters consider themselves feminist and were out protesting in pink hats against Trump and freaking out about their rights when RGB died. Fwminism and  confronting misogyny happens  in real-time, in the smaller moments of our lives, folks [/quote]

Smartest post on here.[/quote]

+1[/quote]

Hold him accountable for what? Admitting someone is attractive,  I see attractive people everyday,  it doesn’t mean I have sexual thoughts them.  There are plenty of attractive people that I would want nothing to with.  And the DH said it to a friend.  He didn’t tell nanny he though she was attractive, that would be inappropriate.  [/quote]

We've been over this multiple times in this thread. Did you bother reading it? If you have, it seems you're a bit slow.  [b] The problem is not that he finds the nanny attractive. The problem is that he opened his mouth about it[/b] thus disrespecting his wife and crating an awkward situation for the nanny, and he alone is wrong and accountable for that. Find whomever you want to attractive, keep your trap shut and stay out of trouble it really is that simple.[/quote]In a private conversation with another man.  Same kind of conversations that woman have.  We all have.  He sees lots of hot women and sometimes, he shares this knowledge with other men.  It's what people do.[/quote]

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