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[quote=Anonymous]This stems from a deep, deep insecurity by the "left out" mom.

I have met people like this. I think the only thing you can probbaly do if you want to maintain a relationship that is peaceful, OP, is say sorry and that you are trying your best but you can't control other people and you simply forgot about her or basically keep it simple...This person probably isn't rational and you don't really owe her anything as others have said. If you are not really sorry (and you really shouldn't be) That's ok. You didn't do anything wrong.

In general, I have found that some people also tend to blow up at people after you help them a bunch of times (with anything) but then the 10th time your help is less than or not as perfect as what they expected in your minds. They can grow to hate you more than someone who never did ANYTHING for them. In my experience.

Personally I have felt left out of some mom groups occassionally but I am more concerned about my kids than myself. I try to invite others to things and take some ownership of the situation. Maybe you can suggest that to your friend too. [/quote]

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