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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would invite the friend to events that I host.  I would tell her if someone was having an event with no details, e.g.

[b]"Larla's mom is having an event for Larla's birthday.  You would have to contact her for details and if the invitation is open or not."[/b]

And leave it at that.  I would not give details about events that I am not hosting.  She can ask the host if she wants to, but I am not giving out details to events that I am not hosting for, not even a drive-by.  To me, even that is crossing the boundary of what is appropriate and I don't need to be blackballed by the others for inviting other people to their events.[/quote]

Why?  Why does anyone have to tell others about events that other people are hosting?  If those people wanted to invite to invite the other, they'd be invited.  This isn't mean girl behavior, by the way.  I've been excluded from things before and I do go out of my way to make sure others are included in the the things I host, but you all are going way beyond that and it's frankly ridiculous. [/quote]

JFC. Do you always have to be "right"? No, you don't "have to" but how hard is it to say so? Life is full of things you don't "have to" do but it doesn't mean it wouldn't be nice if you did. Geez.[/quote]

NP but no, it’s not “nice” to basically encourage someone to invite themselves to another person’s gathering or put that host on the spot.  You have no idea why she wasn’t invited to the other person’s party, that’s not your business. [/quote]

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