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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is not adding up. OP admitted that it was when she didn't ask about her sil at all that her sil had it with her. While her baby was in a hospital. I wonder how many times, did this op make her sil feel like she is a tag along. It is telling that OP is upset about never seeing her brother alone, but that sil always used to come along. SIL probably found out that op complained about wanting her brother alone. Most of us that are mature and married usually come as a package, we don't insist on going alone somewhere all the time. I go out with my sister and her dh out all the time, seems odd to exclude him. Sometimes he doesn't feel like going, but he is always invited. Yet, op showed her objection to this here, I find that immature and possessive.[/quote]

-1 Mature married people are perfectly capable of spending time with their siblings without their spouses tagging along and don't need permission to do so.[/quote]
And look at her reply above? She asked about SIL through brother, as if SIL is invisible? SIL got the message. Plus, how many times did she see and talk to her brother? Sounds like more than three. Her niece was in a hospital and op couldn't bother to send a text to her SIL? But, now she is texting her. Sounds to me like SIL had enough of being ignored, having demands of sil to enjoy her brother alone... and said, enough is enough. Good for her.[/quote]

This is NOT what happened!!!!  I was writing to both on our family chat until my brother wrote separately to my parents and I to stop contacting SIL because she was stressed out and did not want to make their situation a big deal (his words) so obviously we stop writing to SIL and to the family chat. At this point we are all scared of her reactions so we absoloutely consider her ALL THE TIME. 
SIL was (maybe still is) upset that I did not go against my brother’s recommendation and did not write her directly. Also, this was in April. First she did not believe my brother had said that, then even after I showed her his message, she was was still upset and said I should have written to her, but not called her... anyway... this is crazy and if you understood the situation and don’t think this issues are crazy, you are insane too[/quote]

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