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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]SIL is a professional woman (doctor) who just had a baby that was hospitalized. Pretty traumatic for anyone. It’s her first born and she’s probably back at work. She doesn’t want people handling the baby when she’s not there. She doesn’t want to discuss the hospital issues. She also likes to cook and stay well dressed (as well as work, take care of sick baby, and so on). 
But she doesn’t have time for a lot of small talk chat?? OP do you not have kids or a job?[/quote]

I have a job and 3 kids. What is your point? She her daughter does not have issues, but she got sick and at 2 months in my country they hospitalize the baby. This was in April. At the time she was stressed out and worried as any mother would be, but this is not the case now (at least not worried about her daughter’s health). She has a nanny and is perfectly happy to leave the baby with my brother, what she is not happy with is me visiting without her being present. I wrote this several times already. When she sees my mom or when it happened that we talked through whatsup, nobody can ask anything about the daughter or she gets upset and thinks we are judging her. I can’t ask whether baby is eating, crawling, etc... hence the chit chat... that is what she wants to talk about, not me[/quote]

Your SIL doesn’t like you which is why she doesn’t want to leave her baby with you.  Your SIL is not required to leave her baby alone with you.  Give it up.  You can’t FORCE your SIL and brother to leave the baby alone with you.  You also can’t force them to talk about certain things or engage in online group chats.

Seriously get a life and stop meddling.  You should work on your writing skills instead of worrying about your SIL!
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