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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^. The way you stated it, it’s all about sex and your statement was threatening to older women that they better keep their men happy sexually or else.  [/quote]

It's the same creepers posting. A marriage isn't ALL about sex, it's much more. Sex has it's place but the family, security, jobs, commitment and compromise is at the top. Who wants a spouse who thinks like that? If the wife gets sick or there's a tragedy etc. he'll cheat or be out the door. Many are big talkers on here - in reality they are scared to death of having to split half the assets and paying a ex for many years. Some of these losers will be singing a different tune in court if they are caught cheating and are served D papers. I suspect quite a few are angry and have already gone down that road. [/quote]

Thank you for posting this reasonable assessment.  I don’t see around me the types of men who post here and they don’t talk about women the way
 these men talk about women.  I wasn’t sure if my experience was the norm if what these men post is the norm. It also makes me think that women better learn to be financially independent and not count on men for anything at all.  [/quote]

After reading DCUM I actually worry that all men think this way but just don't say it.  This is an anonymous forum so I feel people will tell the truth on how they feel.  I do actually feel a little differently about men after reading a lot of these threads.  If I were to divorce I really don't think I would date or try to date.  I find it sad that women simply ageing is seen as vile to young men and women and older men.

I am financially independent and will be if I ever divorce.  There are so many opportunities for older women to socialise with friends, family and to travel and have hobbies.  I would be happy to leave the young women in their 20's to sleep with everyone.  Good luck to them and good luck to the men all trying to sleep with them, it's a rat race I would happily leave behind.  I certainly don't want to spend my life fighting to look good or be seen as worthwhile simply because of my looks.  If I am lucky enough to reach old age I'll gladly accept those wrinkles, as they say, you've earned them.

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I'm the pp. I'm not sure all men think this way or at least to the extent that these men do so.  There are many men who value many things in a marriage along with sex.  Nevertheless, I think you've got it right with your approach.  I would just make sure I made a difference in whatever I pursued in my life and leave these men to the younger women.  Just leave the rat race.  Why bother?  Good perspective and thanks for posting.[/quote]

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