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Anonymous wrote:^ this photo is so unsettling in so many ways: the age difference, the giant fake boobs, the creepy old guy trying to be cool, not to mention how this is all at a public event, and probably posted on IG for his kids to see.

Why do you think those boobs are fake?

I see no reason to call them fake. Can't rule it out either. I'm sure that dude doesn't care either way.

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Anonymous wrote:^. The way you stated it, it’s all about sex and your statement was threatening to older women that they better keep their men happy sexually or else.

It's the same creepers posting. A marriage isn't ALL about sex, it's much more. Sex has it's place but the family, security, jobs, commitment and compromise is at the top. Who wants a spouse who thinks like that? If the wife gets sick or there's a tragedy etc. he'll cheat or be out the door. Many are big talkers on here - in reality they are scared to death of having to split half the assets and paying a ex for many years. Some of these losers will be singing a different tune in court if they are caught cheating and are served D papers. I suspect quite a few are angry and have already gone down that road.

Are those things mutually exclusive? Can we not have it all?

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Anonymous wrote:^ this photo is so unsettling in so many ways: the age difference, the giant fake boobs, the creepy old guy trying to be cool, not to mention how this is all at a public event, and probably posted on IG for his kids to see.

Why do you think those boobs are fake?

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Anonymous wrote:^. The way you stated it, it’s all about sex and your statement was threatening to older women that they better keep their men happy sexually or else.

It's the same creepers posting. A marriage isn't ALL about sex, it's much more. Sex has it's place but the family, security, jobs, commitment and compromise is at the top. Who wants a spouse who thinks like that? If the wife gets sick or there's a tragedy etc. he'll cheat or be out the door. Many are big talkers on here - in reality they are scared to death of having to split half the assets and paying a ex for many years. Some of these losers will be singing a different tune in court if they are caught cheating and are served D papers. I suspect quite a few are angry and have already gone down that road.

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t say ugly, but she’s a PAWG!

I am financially independent and will be if I ever divorce. There are so many opportunities for older women to socialise with friends, family and to travel and have hobbies. I would be happy to leave the young women in their 20's to sleep with everyone. Good luck to them and good luck to the men all trying to sleep with them, it's a rat race I would happily leave behind.

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Anonymous wrote:^. The way you stated it, it’s all about sex and your statement was threatening to older women that they better keep their men happy sexually or else.

It's the same creepers posting. A marriage isn't ALL about sex, it's much more. Sex has it's place but the family, security, jobs, commitment and compromise is at the top. Who wants a spouse who thinks like that? If the wife gets sick or there's a tragedy etc. he'll cheat or be out the door. Many are big talkers on here - in reality they are scared to death of having to split half the assets and paying a ex for many years. Some of these losers will be singing a different tune in court if they are caught cheating and are served D papers. I suspect quite a few are angry and have already gone down that road.

Thank you for posting this reasonable assessment. I don’t see around me the types of men who post here and they don’t talk about women the way
these men talk about women. I wasn’t sure if my experience was the norm if what these men post is the norm. It also makes me think that women better learn to be financially independent and not count on men for anything at all.

After reading DCUM I actually worry that all men think this way but just don't say it. This is an anonymous forum so I feel people will tell the truth on how they feel. I do actually feel a little differently about men after reading a lot of these threads. If I were to divorce I really don't think I would date or try to date. I find it sad that women simply ageing is seen as vile to young men and women and older men.

I am financially independent and will be if I ever divorce. There are so many opportunities for older women to socialise with friends, family and to travel and have hobbies. I would be happy to leave the young women in their 20's to sleep with everyone. Good luck to them and good luck to the men all trying to sleep with them, it's a rat race I would happily leave behind. I certainly don't want to spend my life fighting to look good or be seen as worthwhile simply because of my looks. If I am lucky enough to reach old age I'll gladly accept those wrinkles, as they say, you've earned them.

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Anonymous wrote:^. The way you stated it, it’s all about sex and your statement was threatening to older women that they better keep their men happy sexually or else.

It's the same creepers posting. A marriage isn't ALL about sex, it's much more. Sex has it's place but the family, security, jobs, commitment and compromise is at the top. Who wants a spouse who thinks like that? If the wife gets sick or there's a tragedy etc. he'll cheat or be out the door. Many are big talkers on here - in reality they are scared to death of having to split half the assets and paying a ex for many years. Some of these losers will be singing a different tune in court if they are caught cheating and are served D papers. I suspect quite a few are angry and have already gone down that road.

Thank you for posting this reasonable assessment. I don’t see around me the types of men who post here and they don’t talk about women the way
these men talk about women. I wasn’t sure if my experience was the norm if what these men post is the norm. It also makes me think that women better learn to be financially independent and not count on men for anything at all.

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t say ugly, but she’s a PAWG!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^. The way you stated it, it’s all about sex and your statement was threatening to older women that they better keep their men happy sexually or else.

It's the same creepers posting. A marriage isn't ALL about sex, it's much more. Sex has it's place but the family, security, jobs, commitment and compromise is at the top. Who wants a spouse who thinks like that? If the wife gets sick or there's a tragedy etc. he'll cheat or be out the door. Many are big talkers on here - in reality they are scared to death of having to split half the assets and paying a ex for many years. Some of these losers will be singing a different tune in court if they are caught cheating and are served D papers. I suspect quite a few are angry and have already gone down that road.

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Man here with a mid-20's AP. It's a bunch of frustrated, frumpy women here harping on you, that's all.

They can't accept that a women in her 20s may prefer an older man to men here age. Go look at the courting rituals of a typical mid-20's guy, and then it's obvious why they have such a preference. Heck, I was just as inept in my 20s when I tried to court women, so nothing has changed I suppose.

So true. It killed me when I was that young that so many women my age went after older guys. Even a few of the girls in high school would only date college aged guys. No I realize just how inept I was back then and I can't blame them at all. It all evens out. I date younger women because I can. Certainly, not all women in my dating age range prefer guys my age, not even most of them. But that still leaves plenty. When I was younger, it sucked to compete with the older guys. I'm sure it sucks just as much for harpies here to know their husbands could so easily replace them with a younger women should their marriage end.

So they have to brand all these women as: nasty, unstable with daddy issues, strippers and sex workers, gold diggers.... It's sad really. Except for maybe daddy issues, which I mentioned, none of the women I've dated were any of those things and no gold digger would target me.

Yep. My AP is in her mid-20s and I was the second person she ever slept with -- the guys her age weren't very good at romancing her she told me. I pay for both of us when we go out, but she's never asked for money and refused it if I offered to help with any expenses. Her parents are divorced, but she talks to her father at least once a day.

I guess some people can't imagine that "normal" women in their 20's without all kinds of issues may date older men...

Sorry but normal women in their 20s aren’t banging older married men. Or married men at all for that matter. My 20s aren’t that far in the past, and me and all my friends were into dating unmarried men with the hopes of finding a long term partner.

Being a home wrecker in your 20s is trashy.

And a 20 year old does not enjoy sex with her grandpa!

Anonymous wrote:^. The way you stated it, it’s all about sex and your statement was threatening to older women that they better keep their men happy sexually or else.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^ this photo is so unsettling in so many ways: the age difference, the giant fake boobs, the creepy old guy trying to be cool, not to mention how this is all at a public event, and probably posted on IG for his kids to see.

Why do you think those boobs are fake?

Those are real. Large, but real. They hang naturally.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^ this photo is so unsettling in so many ways: the age difference, the giant fake boobs, the creepy old guy trying to be cool, not to mention how this is all at a public event, and probably posted on IG for his kids to see.

Why do you think those boobs are fake?